Which one is best for you and your household?

A big question that comes up for a lot of prospective pet owners: Should you get a male or a female dog? Well, on that front, we’ve got some helpful insight to consider. 

 Are there truly personality differences that can be attributed to the sex of a dog?

The short answer is: yes. The personality differences can most clearly be seen between females and intact (non-neutered) males. Males can be more dominant, territorial, and easily distracted than female dogs. On the other hand, males can also be more playful, active, and independent. Dominance and territorial behavior can also be seen in un-spayed females when they are in heat.  Female dogs tend to be easier to housebreak, easier to train, and more connected with their owners—but in certain circumstances they can be more demanding of attention.

Aggression can be a problem in any dog of any breed, however it is usually more apparent in non-neutered males.

Does this mean that all non-neutered males and un-spayed females will be aggressive, territorial, and dominant? And that all females will be easier to train and housebreak? The short answer is: no. These are just generalized personality tendencies. The fact is, most dogs of either sex that are properly socialized as puppies—and given the proper training and care—can grow up to be wonderful, obedient, attentive, life-enhancing companions.

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Speaking very generally about male dogs...

Males tend to be more stable in mood than females – less prone to emotional swings. An elderly gentleman said of his big male dog, "He's as reliable as rain in Seattle, he is. Summer or winter, morning or night, Ringo is as dependable as ever."

Many male dogs are bolder and more aggressive than females. For example, most police and military dogs are males.

And yet in some breeds, it's the female who tends to be a bit "sharper" and more aggressive, while the males are described as "affectionate goofballs" or "big ol' softies."

Male dogs have genitals that are easy to see, which makes some owners feel self-conscious. When you roll them over to rub their belly, there's "something in the way." Male dogs may become aroused and/or lick their private parts. Again, some owners find this embarrassing, especially when Grandma happens to be visiting.

A male dog is either unneutered (also called intact) or neutered (also called castrated or de-sexed).

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Speaking very generally about female dogs...

Female dogs are more prone to mood swings. They can be sweet and loving when they're happy – but a bit on the sulky side when they really, really don't like something.

Now mind you, I'm a proud member of the fairer sex myself. But I must admit that female dogs are experts at giving you That Dirty Look when something isn't to their liking.

Female dogs are often less physical than males, less "in your face" than male dogs. Females are affectionate, absolutely, but often on their own terms. They may request petting, then assert their independence by walking away when they've had enough.

Female dogs are opinionated and often manipulative. If they don't want to do something, they may try to work their charming wiles with you. If that doesn't work, they may become passively resistant or slink around with their tail down and ears back. Or give you one of those patented "looks." Some owners find this exasperating, while others find it amusing.

A female is either unneutered (also called intact) or neutered (also called spayed or de-sexed).